Reflections on Mortality: Finding Hope in the Midst of Loss
Isaac Megbolugbe
January 14, 2025
As a widower and retired professor, I have recently experienced a series of losses that have left me pondering the fleeting nature of life. The passing of loved ones, friends, and colleagues has filled my heart with sorrow and my mind with reflections on mortality. In these moments of grief, I find solace in the words of Alfred, Lord Tennyson, who so eloquently expressed the pain of loss in his poem “Tears, Idle Tears”: “O Death in Life, the days that are no more” (Tennyson, 1847).
This quote resonates deeply with me, as I mourn the loss of those who were dear to me. Like Tennyson, I am struck by the finality of death and the longing for moments that can never be recaptured. Yet, even in the midst of sorrow, I find gratitude for the life we shared and hope for the future.
As I navigate this journey of loss, I am reminded of the wisdom of the Psalmist, who wrote, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom” (Psalm 90:12, NIV). These words encourage me to cherish the time I had with my loved ones and to appreciate the preciousness of life.
While death may seem like an enemy, it also reminds me of the promise of eternal life and the hope of reunion. As the apostle Paul wrote, “Death is swallowed up in victory” (1 Corinthians 15:55, NIV). This promise gives me strength to face the pain of loss and to look forward to the future with hope.
In conclusion, Tennyson’s poignant words, “O Death in Life, the days that are no more,” resonate deeply with me as I mourn the loss of those I loved. Yet, even in sorrow, I find gratitude for life and hope for the future, knowing that death is not the final word. As I look to the future, I am reminded of the words of Jesus, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die” (John 11:25, NIV).
References:
Tennyson, A. (1847). The Princess. London: Edward Moxon.
Psalm 90:12 (NIV). Bible Gateway.
1 Corinthians 15:55 (NIV). Bible Gateway.
John 11:25 (NIV). Bible Gateway.
