The Purpose of My Life: Why I Was Born

The Purpose of My Life: Why I Was Born

Isaac Megbolugbe

December 28, 2024

As I sit in quiet reflection, surrounded by the memories of a lifetime, I am filled with a sense of wonder and awe. It is a feeling that comes from finally discovering the purpose of my life, the reason why I was born. This realization, which came to me at the ripe age of almost 73, is a testament to the power of perseverance, self-discovery, and faith.

Growing up, I often wondered about the meaning of life and my place in the world. Like many, I searched for answers in various pursuits, from education to career, and even relationships. But it wasn’t until I recently embarked on a journey to honor my parents’ legacies that I stumbled upon my purpose.

It began with the commissioning of my father’s biography, a project that allowed me to delve into his life, values, struggles, and accomplishments. As I poured over his story, I began to see the sacrifices he made, the challenges he overcame and the ones he succumbed to, and the impact he had on those around him. His life is catalytic for the rise and fall of Kabba Kingdom, Kogi State. It was a truly eye-opening experience, one that made me realize the importance of preserving his legacy.

Next, I established a community foundation in his honor, a gesture that aimed to continue his philanthropic and community work and give back to the community. This endeavor not only allowed me to connect with my father’s values, struggles and challenges but also to make a positive impact on the world.

Finally, I began the renovation of my mother’s church, where she served as the Mother of the Church (Iya Ijo) until she passed away in 2003. This project was particularly meaningful, as it allowed me to reconnect with my spiritual roots and honor my mother’s devotion to her faith.

 

As I reflect on these experiences, I am struck by the realization that my purpose in life is to serve as a righteous remnant of my parents’ legacies. It is a calling that requires me to embody their values, understand their struggles and strength, draw attention to the meaning of their lives and endeavors, continue their work, and make a positive impact on the world.

This discovery has brought me a sense of clarity, direction, and fulfillment. I am no longer searching for answers, as I have found my purpose. And as I look to the future, I am filled with excitement and anticipation, knowing that I have a clear path to follow. The ongoing work on my autobiography will also now take on a purposefully structured narrative lanes hitherto, not considered.

As the Bible says, “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” (Jeremiah 29:11) I am living proof of this promise, and I am grateful for the journey that has led me to this realization. Mark Twain once said that the two greatest days in a person’s life are the day they were born and the day they discover why they were born. I am thankful to have experienced both, and I hope that my story can inspire others to seek out their purpose and fulfill their destiny.

In conclusion, discovering my purpose in life has been a transformative experience, one that has given me a sense of direction, fulfillment, and joy. I hope that my story can serve as a reminder that it’s never too late to discover why you were born, and that with faith, perseverance, and self-discovery, you can unlock your purpose and live a life that truly matters.

Isaac Megbolugbe, Director of GIVA Ministries International, 2024 Marquis Organization’s Class of Top Executives in the United States of America and a Fellow of the Royal Institution of Chartered Surveyors. He is resident in the United States of America.